Age: 38
years old
Married:
yes, since 20 years
Children: 2
daughters (16 and 13 years old) and 2 sons (11 and 9 years old)
A typical
day in Pushpa’s life looks like that of most Indian women. The main part of her
day consists of taking care of her four children, maintaining the house and
cooking for the family. Pushpa dropped
out of school after the 7th grade, her parents couldn't afford an
education for all 6 of their children. In India it is quite common that the
parents only send their sons to school, the girls are needed to help their
mothers in the household or with other duties such as rearing cattle.
“When I was 12 years old I looked after the cows, but I wanted to learn. My dream was to become a nurse, that's why I wanted to go to school.”
At the
young age of 19 Pushpa got married to an abusive husband. Soon after she became
pregnant with her first daughter and in the years after, three more children
followed. With her poor education and no prospects of getting a job she was
very much dependant on her husband, who earned the only income for the family
as a painter.
“Before I felt very poor. My husband was beating me up regularly and I didn't know how to handle the situation. Thanks to Sambhali I feel more powerful now. When he tries to slap me now I am holding his hand that he can't hurt me.”
Pushpa
heard about Sambhali from the women in her village who were already working as
sewers for the trust. Since she was a little girl Pushpa always enjoyed
stitching and was very happy when she joined the sewing centre 9 years ago. The
job at Sambhali not only gives her the opportunity to meet other women but it also
helps her to be financially independent.
“Before Sambhali I didn't have money for myself or the children, now I can earn the money for my children; that makes me feel powerful.”
Pushpa
dreams about having her own little shop where she can sell the clothes she is
making. At the moment she doesn't have enough money to start her business but
she will continue to work in the Graduate Sewing Centre and work towards her
dream. But the highest priority for Pushpa is the education and future of her
children. She has especially high hopes for her girls, wanting them to have the
opportunities in life which she didn't have.
“I want that my children become powerful and that they'll fulfil their dreams. I want my girls to get a good education and a job. I wasn't able to do so but I hope they will.”
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